Monday, July 18, 2011

My brothers unborn baby died?

I'm so sorry to hear about the baby. I understand thier pain all too well. Two years I gave birth to a little girl who was stillborn. I have also had two miscarriages. Although the pain is great, it's just not the same as having bury your child. You wouldn't beileve the insensitive things that were said to me. Like; "Oh well good thing you have other children" or "God took your baby so he could another angel" and "Your young so you can have more..." I was devastated! It's very important that your sensitive to them especially her. Not that your brother doesn't matter but she carried the baby inside of her. After the funeral is over their still going to need support. One of the nurses at the hospital told me after while no one is going to want to hear or talk about your baby but you. How true she was. So if they want to talk be there for them, be that shoulder to cry on. It's going to be a long time that they'll need that a good support system. Best wishes to you and your family.

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